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I feel so thankful with my condition now. As a muslim woman I still do all things in right ways, Insha Allah. Recent time I meet all people from over the world. I have chatted with them who from many kind of country with their each cultures, by this my English which is still too bad. I don’t know exactly, aren’t people who are roving in the cyber world most of them lier or criminal.

But I love to meet them all. I can know what other kind of life, and to open my mind about all things and to see how’s life of other overseas society. I meet several friends from Pakistan, Japan, and Australia. I just to be friendly to making friend with all whatever sort of them. It make me to know more about all.

I see many people in Pakistan are wonderful person. I meet several young people in teenage old have a deep knowledge in Islam. Do all their obligation in Islamic ways seriously. I appreciate them. And they all so smart too, they have a good enough English. It mind me children in Indonesia that have same age, senior/junior high school student too rarely who could speaking in a good English.

Besides it, I meet people from other non-muslim country too. I see how bad of life there, especially in their free sex habit. They think so strange if girls or boys above 20 years old still virgin. They tell me honestly about their sex experiences. When they ask me back about Indonesian, they think that it’s unbelievable that a lots of girls/boys still virgin eventhough they have a boy/girlfriend. So how bad a value of virginity there ?

I write this article just want to describe how’s life commonly in Indonesian custom, that is different with them.

It all because we have different mind with them in love sense. They so easy in love matter. They can tell about their feeling directly and can be quickly without ashamed eventhough it is to people who they just have met her/hir in recents time. So it is too easy to convey what they feel about love in short time with the intention for making girl/boyfriend relationship between them. And for them when they agree about that relationship, It means ussualy that they can doing sex with their girl/boyfriend whenever they want. Might be that’s the reason why people there easy too to get divorce. Easy to say love, easy to making love, easy to bored, and easy to change the spouse.

It is too different with Indonesian custom as long as I know. We are in Indonesia love sense is something that too cautiousful to talking out. We, girls or boys sometime have ashamed feeling to convey or to tell out about their feeling to girls/boys they love, just in short time. Especially for the girls, too seldom the girls starting first to say love to boy they love. It will be seems like embarrassing sense. Might be that’s why there are too many jomblo in Indonesia, especially jomblo woman. Hehehe…… And here in Indonesia, love relationship between girl/boyfriend doesn’t mean that they can do free sex if they want. Of course it is not appropriate and scandalous action, especially in muslim roles. We have big muslim community here. It is forbidden in this religion. Love relationship between girl/boyfriend only in limited relation, they can be loving and take care to each other, and help each other in a real relationship, commonly like best and closest friend, because there love in their each heart. And they agree to have commitment that one day later they will marry to each other if the time is right, and Insha Allah if God permit it. But I don’t know so far might be there are another thing in under ground of others society here..

And I don’t know how muslim people who live out in unislamic country can be changing step by step and doing prohibition things follow it’s custom.. Naudzubillah minzalik…... But it’s imaginable…. I am thankful I just ordinary girl who come from ordinary society. Because people who usually do it commonly are come from high class community who lack of faith in God and religion.

Once again I am so thankful to Allah.. I live in Indonesia, and I am still in the right way…. Insha Allah..

So how could it be easy to find holy and clean person in the cyber world to be our soulmate..?


Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be modest . That is purer for them . Allah is Aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and be modest , and to display of their adornment only that which is apparent , and to draw their veils over their bosoms , and not to reveal their adornment save except to their own husbands or fathers or husband’s fathers , or their sons or their husbands ' sons , or their brothers or their brothers' sons or sister’s sons , or their women , or their slaves , or male attendants who lack vigor , or children who know naught of women's nakedness . And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment . And turn unto Allah together , O.. believers , in order that you may succeed.
(An Nur : 30-31)

And come not near unto adultery . it is an abomination and an evil way.
(Al Israa : 32)


*Jomblo is girl/boy who has no a gal, especially in a long time.